I grew up in North Carolina (the Piedmont is considered the “Birthplace of Barbecue”), and now live in Kansas City, a name almost synonymous with barbecue. Since I absolutely LOVE BBQ from just about anywhere, and my other passion is marketing, it only makes sense that these topics would inevitably come together in a blog post! So here what’s the lesson?
Be Consistently & Definably Different
North Carolina BBQ is vinegar based, while Kansas City (and just about everywhere else) has a tomato-based sauce. NC BBQ is by definition chopped or shredded pork, while KC BBQ is whatever meat you want to smoke and put some sauce on. The reason people are loyal to one kind or another is rooted in consistency. I know when I go to NC that I will get the BBQ I grew up with. I know when I order BBQ in Kansas City, there is not a single restaurant that serves anything close to what you find in NC (though some try), but I’m going to get some amazing ribs, brisket or pork done the awesome KC way. The consistent difference breeds strong loyalty. (My wife and I spent the first year of our marriage arguing about what “real” BBQ is!)
Be sure that the service & product you offer your customers is CONSISTENTLY and DEFINABLY DIFFERENT than the competition and you will build a fanatical following of loyalists.
2-Minute Action Tip
- Pop open a text editor.
- Pretend you are one of your customers.
- Write (in full conversation-style sentences) three things that are definably different about your business.
- If you cannot easily come up with at least one, write what you would LIKE your customer to say about you – and then go make the needed changes!
Reading a blog-post won’t help you. Only action can do that.

